Sometimes Giving up is better !!

You were alone, minding ur own buisness. Nothing to expect,noone who cared.Confined to ur small room immersed in ur work.. Cut from the outer world..Ur friends said that u were a robot .. no emotions, no feelings. u never gave second thoughts to it.. this alien world had nothing to offer u..
one day ur solitude is broken. He smiles at you, talks to you and helps u out..A new ray of hope.. mixed feelings.. u start enjoying his company. Somebody who cares to ask if u ate .. someone who cries for u and laughs with u... Days go by and he becomes a part of ur life .. everything around u points to him.. its like u never lived before he came into ur life.... expectations,fights,tears,hurt!! U were in a relationship and u strive to make things better!!
The inevitable day dawns when u have to take different paths.. New place, same solitude... it haunts u.. u talk to him on phone..tell him every minute detail in ur life..u keep wondering about him when u do anything.. but as it is said - familiarity breads contempt!! He starts advicing u to think independent, be more confident about urself and less emotional and dependent.. U try hard to explain that u want to just share ur happiness and sorrows with him but in vain.. u start falling apart. he starts ignoring u.. the past flashes across ur mind..
U struggle to move on. U could live without anyone before, why not now?? things havent changed , have they.. questions that have no answers.. u drown urself in books,drinks,music.. ur attitude towards life changes!! U try hard to forget the memories of u and him together.. And all this time , u keep wondering how he is taking it..
Talks reveal that he is happy with his life.. enjoying every bit of it and his voice seems so excited.. he has moved on, new friends, a whole new life!! U feel happy for him .. He is happier without u.. Its better u give up someone than hang on to him and cause misery!!
Life goes on!!
p.s bear with me.. reading to many pschycology related articles lately!!